On November 3rd, Ryan started looking online and researching rings. After looking through hundreds of designs, one stuck out and Ryan knew that it was the right ring. Ryan ordered it right away. Ryan now needed the perfect way to propose and to make sure that it was a surprise. Ryan was trying to decide what day to propose on and joked to himself about making it the 17th because that is his favorite number. Ryan had the idea to look up when the next meteor shower, since the two had talked about wanting to watch one. A quick Google search revealed that the next meteor shower would be on the 17th of November! Ryan obtained Regan's parents blessings and made sure that they were comfortable with him asking her and with the timing.
To throw Regan off the trail, since she knew that the day was coming soon, Ryan began on Wednesday buying her gifts and filming himself and her talking about their plans and thoughts. On Wednesday, Ryan bought Regan two board games. On Thursday, Regan went to Ryan’s home to eat lunch and play a game. Ryan gave Regan a dozen roses (He told her later that he had the ring behind the couch in case he couldn't wait for the next night to ask her).
On Friday, Regan and Ryan had planned to see a meteor shower. Ryan picked Regan up at 11PM and there were three wrapped packages on the seat. Ryan told Regan that she could open them when they got to "The Land" (his parents have some land just outside of town). At "The Land" Ryan and Regan settled down to watch the meteor shower. The two watched the starsm talked together, enjoyed the peace and serenity, danced in the moonlight (until becoming too cold!) and opened gifts. The first gift was a food container (since she had been teasing Ryan for days about losing her’s). The second package contained the movies, It's a Wonderful Life and White Christmas since Regan had told him she watched every year with her family on Christmas. The third package was a pair of diamond earrings which Ryan thoughtfully informed Regan was not a ring as she unwrapped it. At this point, Regan was sure she would not be getting engaged this night. Ryan then asked Regan to give some suggestions on film about the ring, about what kind of cut the diamond should be and what kind of band it should have... Regan wasn't sure what she liked so she didn't really have answers (which was good since he already had the ring). Ryan then asked Regan to stand up which she didn't think was suspicious at all for some reason, maybe she was too cold to think straight :) or maybe since he had already done that a bunch of times already, such as when he asked her to dance). Ryan got down on one knee and said, "Regan, will you do me the honor of marrying me?" Regan said, "Yes.”
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Regan talking with her dad before walking down the aisle. Photo by Jacki Koch |
The Wedding
One night, Ryan and Regan were talking and Ryan said he wanted to have a hypothetical conversation. Regan indulged him. Ryan said that they could be married by the weekend and then proceeded to step Regan through each hurdle that needed to be jumped prior to marriage, such as obtaining a marriage lisence, a minister, as well as a location. Regan asked Ryan if he was serious and Ryan said that he would do it if he had any inclining that Regan would consider it. Regan said, "Let's do it". Regan and Ryan contacted their parents to ask for approval. Regan and Ryan decided to get married in Illinois so that Regan's father could attend.
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Bride and Groom with most of their family Photo by Jacki Koch |
The next evening, Regan and Ryan were headed to Illinois for their marriage license. Ryan's father was able to obtain a minister's license. Regan's uncle offered to pay for the wedding at a Biaggi's restaurant. Regan and Ryan called their guests. After obtaining the marriage license, Regan and Ryan drove back to Iowa so that Regan could work her shifts. Regan worked an overnight shift from Saturday to Sunday and at 7AM on Sunday, Regan and Ryan left for Illinois with Ryan's parents.
Regan and Ryan said, "I do" at 6pm that evening.
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Ryan and Regan after the wedding, posing for pictures. Photo by Bre Rottinghaus |
Our engagement photos were taken by our friend, Beth Paulsen. Check out her blog,
Playin' With The Paulsens, here to see more of her photographs! Our wedding photos were taken by guests at our wedding, Bre Rottinghaus and Jacki Koch.